SoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32a

Leather
Imported
Synthetic sole
Shaft measures approximately above-the-knee from arch
Ankle Boot
1 1/4\" Heel heightSoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32aSoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32aSoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32aSoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32a
Gabor Epworth Womens Modern Ballerina Shoes B0762591JV 7.5 C (M) UK/ 9.5 B(M) US|Rame Jute,
Adrianna Papell Women's Helma Pump B06Y1FSRDW 9 B(M) US|Pewter Satin,Trotters Women's Melinda Ballet Flat B07933C8TQ 6 W US|Burgundy,Vans Men's Sk8-Hi(Tm) Core Classics B001C0LIVC 8.5 M US Women / 7 M US Men|Black/White,Bella Vita Women's Define Dress Pump B00ZICAI0C 11 B(M) US|Black Leather,ASICS Women's Gel-Nimbus 20 Running Shoe B071HV12XN 8.5 B(M) US|Black/Black/CarbonARRAY Hamilton Women's Slip On B07F48ST78 12 2A(N) US|Black,Pleaser Women's SEXY19/R Dress Sandal B00MH2KLAI 7 B(M) US|Red Patent,Skechers Women's Go Golf Birdie Golf Shoe B01GUVQ5OM 6 B(M) US|Black/White Knit,David Tate Womens Foxy B0796482YT 8 C/D US|Navy,Propét Women's TravelFit Walking Shoe B073DMDMV5 9.5 4E US|Green,Bogs Women's Amanda Slip on Solid Rain Boot B073PJFLYG 12 B(M) US|Burgundy,CLARKS Women's Wessex Bria Platform Pump B00EI45O8W 6.5 B(M) US|Leopard,Everwood B005BBY6AI 8 D US|Black Suede/Water Resistant,The North Face Women's Hedgehog Fastpack Hiking Shoe B00LNHWWZ0 8.5 B(M) US|Grey/Paradise GreenFinn Comfort Women's Ikebukuro Oxford B073V9PP1B 10 M US|Rust Suede,J Slides Women's Flynn Sneaker B0778WZ8F1 7 B(M) US|Sky Blue,Women Lindy Comfort Gladiator Strappy Faux Leather/Nubuck Dress Platform High Wedge Sandals B0714QMZGJ 7.5 B(M) US|Black_l1Vans Unisex Authentic Canvas Shoes B0771TV2RN 6.5 D(M) US|Black and BlackConverse All Star Hi - Womens Basketball Shoes B06XHL8P8N 5 B(M) US|Dark Sangria/Dark Sangria/White,Dreamcity Women's Water Shoes Athletic Sport Lightweight Walking Shoes B07C2VR74M 8.5 B(M) US,Gray 789,FitFlop Women's F-Sporty Elastic Mary Jane Flat B073WWL8MF 6.5 B(M) US|Black Patent,adidas Originals Women's Edgebounce Running Shoe B077XNFG4Q 7 B(M) US|Clear Orange/White/Copper Metallic,Chaco Women's Zx2 Classic Athletic Sandal B01H4XCYGS 8 B(M) US|Patched Amber,Palladium Men's Pampa Sport Cuff Wpn Rain Boot B00T4WYO3O 7 D(M) US|Black,Vince Camuto Women's Ellanna Slide Sandal B075FGQ7TL 5 B(M) US|Moody Blues,NIKE Women's Flex Experience RN 6 Running Shoe B01H5W45HO 10 B(M) US|Black/WhiteSalomon Women Odyssey Pro Low Hiking Shoes B01MYQFFNA 8.5|CASTOR GRAY/EGGSHELL,Durango Women's Drd0176 Western Boot B01HF79FNS 6.5 B(M) US|Dark Brown/TanTOETOS Women's REINNA-01 Lace up Platform Sneakers Shoes B01N7LIPLA 11 B(M) US|Black,Drew Shoe Tuscany Women's Therapeutic Diabetic Extra Depth Shoe Leather/mesh Lace-up B07B3RGSGL 10.5 2E US Woman|Cream/Combo,
Pendleton Women's Heritage Acadia National Park Chelsea Boot B0771QTRPD 8 B(M) US|Acadia Black,
health 30seconds.com/health

Release the "Why" in Loss: For Healing, Here's a Better Question to Ask Yourself... by Roxane Goss

NIKE Women's Juvenate Running Shoe B00R54QDNW 9.5 B(M) US|Total Orange/Laser Orange/WhiteColumbia Women's Spinner Vent Moc Water Shoe B073WG4PLH 8.5 B(M) US|Ancient Fossil, Sea Salt,J.Renee Women's Rashana B00WKB3XOC 12 W (C)|Dark Gray/Pewte,Skechers Women's DLites Interlude Sneaker B074FNTSJH 9 B(M) US|Gray MintPropet Women's W3851 Wash & Wear Slip-On B000BO86NS 11 W (US Women's 11 D)|Black,Propet Women's Wash N Wear Slip on Ll Walking Shoe B06XS86HLG 9 W US|Sr WhiteNike Air Max Zero Essential GS Running Shoe B072117N5T 6 M US Big Kid|Black/Black/Black,NIKE Women's Zoom All Out Low Running Shoes B01MAWR5Y9 6 M US|Black/Dark Grey,FLY London Women's Whin176fly Slide Sandal B07121PWF7 36 M EU|Reef Cupido,Steve Madden Women's Carrson Dress Sandal B077GY72FX 6 B(M) US|Dusty Blue,Easy Spirit Women's Faisal2 Sneaker B07B1SCVLJ 11 B(M) US|White,NAOT Women's Sanna Flat Sandal B010AZ9JEW 36 M EU / 5 B(M) US|White Snake Combo,New Balance Women's 420v4 Cushioning Running Shoe B075R7CFTQ 6 M US|Mineral Sage,Naturalizer Women's Samantha Pointed Toe Flat B0718YJNXG 11 N US|Black Satin,The Fix Women's Vail Choked-up Banana Heel Dress Pump B06XH6LFM5 9 B(M) US|Black,Women's Chocolate Blu, Mario Slip on Shoes B078BKNSKB 9 B(M) US|Ice,Vans Unisex Era 59 Skate Shoes B01I22QEBG 10 D(M) US|Khaki / Material Mix,Justin Boots Women's Gypsy Collection Western Boot B00LCT64WG 11 B(M) US|Brown Flower Embossed,New Balance Women's WW411v2 Walking Shoe B00V3QS7JQ 8.5 2A US|GreyNIKE Women's Air Huarache Run Ultra Running Shoe B01EL3TP5C 5 B(M) US|black,New Balance Women's W860bp7 B01LZKIT6Y 5.5 D(M) US|White/Blue,CLARKS Women's Wave Grip Sandal B01IAN8ROY 8.5 D - Wide|Black Synthetic,Qupid Women Faux Suede Lace up Flatform Sneaker GB87 B01MT93I0F 9 M US|Black,Chaco Women's Zvolv 2 Athletic Sandal B071GMPTNB 5 B(M) US|Marled Peach,PUMA Women's Fierce Krm Cross-Trainer Shoe B01JIZGMUE 11 M US|Dawn/Puma WhiteNaturalizer Women's Dev Riding Boot B073X235Z6 8 C/D US|Oatmeal Leather,Salomon Women's Quest Prime GTX W Backpacking Boot B00ZLMZBVU 8.5 B(M) US|Detroit/Asphalt/Lucite Green,New Balance Women's 711v3 Cush + Cross Trainer B075R7PNGT 8 D US|Grey,Luichiny Women's Vay Kay Fashion Sneaker B00L0WQUMY 5.5 B(M) US|Pewter,Brooks Womens Launch 5 B0711JFDWF 6 B(M) US|Pink/Blue/White,
Release the "Why" in Loss: For Healing, Here's a Better Question to Ask Yourself...

So often we can get stuck in the grieving process. When that happens, we spend so much of our time trying to figure out why we aren't able to reconcile the loss, heal and move forward. One of the ways you can get stuck is in asking why: Why did my loved one die? Why didn't he go to the doctor? Why didn't I call 9-1-1?

Most likely there will never be an answer to the why. Staying in the why keeps you stuck in the past. It prevents you from healing, moving forward and living a fulfilling life. A better question would be: "How?" 

  • How are you going to look at your loss? 
  • How are you going to respond to the loss? 
  • How can you understand the loss from a different perspective than that of the why? 
  • How are you going to move forward in spite of the loss?

The how shines a light into the future. It allows you to get curious, to explore and discover all the possibilities that lie ahead. The how allows you to reconcile and heal so you can reconstruct and renew your life.

If you're stuck in the why, ask yourself these questions: "How is the 'WHY' serving me?" "How will the 'HOW' serve me better?"

SoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32a

SoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32a

SoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32a

comments 3

likes 136

Elisa All Schmitz 30Seconds
So incredibly insightful, Roxane Goss . Very true. Thank you for sharing! 💗
Keri De Deo
I needed to hear this. I've been free from my job for a year now, but I am struggling with the loss. I'm totally stuck in the "why" of it all. And that "why" will never get answered. So, now I will focus on how I'm going to move forward.

Thank you for this!
Keri

 

Please login to comment.

 

SoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32a

SoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32a

SoftWalk Women's Rocklin Loafer Flat, Black Suede, 9.5 8.0 2W US B079334912 9.5 Suede, 2W US|Black Oil a3d32a